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Sunday, 1 May 2016


Wall Street is one of those movies that has become a part of the American history because of the themes, content and messages it contains and, of course, the significance to the time in which the  movie is set. I’ve looked at this movie a couple of times and this is my take.
The Plot

In essence the movie has at least six characters who play important roles as the story unfolds, however the main characters are Charlie Sheen, who plays Bud Fox, an aspiring millionaire, and Michael Douglas, who plays Gordon Gekko, (the name Gekko I think was symbolic of a lizard as it reminded me of the commercial but I will save that for bit later on) who is a very rich, ruthless and immoral stock trader and “corporate raider”.  Daryl Hannah plays Darien Taylor, a young and beautiful interior designer with a very expensive taste, who is a friend of Gekko and Bud’s love interest.  Martin Sheen, who is Charlie Sheen’s father in real life, also plays his father in the movie, is an airplane mechanic and labour union leader at an Airline that becomes the centre of Gekko’s attention.

It’s a story about a young ambitious Wall Street broker (Bud Fox) who is determined to be a part of the elite club and live the rich life like the person he idolizes, a man who turns out to be a ruthless and cutthroat business man who uses inside secret to make deals, which is illegal to say the least...yes I’m talking about Gordon Gekko himself.  Gekko, the cunning businessman he is, buys companies cheap and proceeds to destroy them and sell off the company’s assets without any regards for the lives affected by his decisions, only for the return he is able to get on his investments.

Bud, with some persistence (59 days of consistently calling Gekko office), finally gets an audience with Gekko but is unable to present him with a deal worthy of his time or attention and Gekko dismisses him.  Gekko however sees the determination, ambition and inexperience in Bud and decides to give him another chance to bring something worthy to the table, soon enough Bud begins working for Gekko.

This is where he meets Darien (Daryl Hannah), who he can now approach since he’s working for Gekko and is begin to rake in the cash.

When Gekko goes after the Airline that his father works for, Bud soon learns of the unscrupulous side of Gekko and the lengths he is willing to go to to get what he wants and to make more and more money .  He eventually teams up with Gekko’s rival to keep the Airline safe and out of the hands of Gekko.

This movie does a good job of capturing the ambiance and more so the greed that was a big part of the American landscape during the 1980s.  Written by Oliver Stone and Stanley Weiser, it was directed by Oilver Stone whose father was a broker during the Great Depression, and the inspiration behind the movie concept.  The movie was made in 1987 against the backdrop of the greed and excessiveness that played out on Wall Street during the Reaganomics era.  It was at a time when greed was glorified and excessive spending became the norm;  when everything had to be big – houses, cars, hair, shoulder pads,  salaries etc. to do it any other way would mean that you lacked ambition at best. America had experienced doom and gloom under the previous administration, however, when Reagan took office in the early part of the 1980s he transformed the country’s economic climate and identity.   The American Dream was born, now citizens felt that there was absolutely nothing that was unattainable, nothing they could not achieve, nothing that was out of their reach.  This soon feed into the social fibre of the country as drugs and sex became more popular than before and society was buzzing with activities driven by greed, excessiveness, materialism which became known as “the “me” generation”.

I had to break down the context…

HISTORICAL

During the Nixon and Ford Administrations, before Reagan's election, a combined supply and demand side policy was considered unconventional by the moderate wing of the Republican Party. While running against Reagan for the Presidential nomination in 1980, George H. W. Bush had derided Reaganomics as "voodoo economics".  In stating his intention was to lower taxes, Reagan's approach was a departure from his immediate predecessors. Reagan enacted lower marginal tax rates as well as simplified income tax codes and continued deregulation.

Prior to the Reagan administration, the United States economy experienced a decade of rising unemployment and inflation (known as stagflation). Political pressure favored stimulus resulting in an expansion of the money supply. The federal oil reserves were created to ease any future short term shocks. President Jimmy Carter had begun phasing out price controls on petroleum, while he created the Department of Energy. Much of the credit for the resolution of the stagflation is given to two causes: a three-year contraction of the money supply by the Federal Reserve Board under Paul Volcker, initiated in the last year of Carter's presidency, and long-term easing of supply and pricing in oil during the 1980s oil glut.

Similarly, in 1976, Gerald Ford had severely criticized Reagan's proposal to turn back a large part of the Federal budget to the states.

POLITICAL

This film came into the American consciousness during Ronald Reagan’s presidency during which time the political identity of the American people changed. Reagan took office on the heels of an economic downturn which engendered a mood of disillusionment as well as a lack of confidence in the government of the day to deal effectively with the country’s deep-rooted social and political challenges. Reagan sought to eliminate regulations affecting the consumer, the workplace and the environment that he argued were inefficient, expensive and impeded economic growth. He became a figure of reassurance and stability for many Americans and was known as the “Great Communicator”.

Labour was a prominent power in the early 1980s, in the first few months of his presidency Reagan made a bold move by firing more than 11,000 striking air traffic controllers. The air traffic controllers were fired two days after their union, PATCO, declared a strike. They were demanding a pay raise, a shorter workweek, and better working conditions.  It was at a time when the labour movement was still seen as a central force in American government and politics by Republican and Democrats.  Reorganizing the relationship between his government and the labour movement at the time was part of the strategy of the Regan Revolution.

In his first term, Reagan introduced expansionary fiscal policies aimed at stimulating the American economy after a recession in 1981 and 1982, including oil deregulation policies which led to the 1980s oil glut. He met with Soviet leader Mikhail Gorbachev in four summit conferences, culminating with the signing of the INF Treaty. These actions brought a quick end of the Cold War, which took place from 1989-91, as typified by the collapse of communism both in Eastern Europe, and in the Soviet Union, and in numerous Third World clients. The economy was in recession from 1981-83, but recovered and grew sharply after that.

ECONOMIC

The 1980s referred to as the Reagan Revolution and advocate of free markets and laissez-faire economics, and upon taking office, believed that the American economy was hampered by excessive regulations and social programs. The Reagan Revolution or Reaganomics became popular terms associated with Reagan’s Presidency because of his economic and social policies.  Reagan brought together a variety of interests united by a distaste for big government, his economic policy looked at reducing the growth of government spending, reducing the federal income tax and capital gains tax, reducing government regulation, and tighten the money supply in order to reduce inflation.  This meant that the American people now had far more disposable income at hand and so the era of greed and excessiveness began.  It was felt that if there were more money in the economy that it would trickle down to the working class as now people would be able to afford goods and services that they were not able to at the beginning of his reign.

 SOCIAL

The 1980s were called the Reagan years, because he was president for eight of them. During his first term, the recession ended. Inflation was controlled. He reduced taxes. The American public felt a sense of hope and potential prosperity again which meant a shift in focus and priority and so "the 'me' generation" which describes Americans who were only concerned about themselves and “yuppie” which meant "young urban professional" era began. Both these groups it seemed lived just to make and spend money, money, and more money.

America was buzzing with activities in the 1980s and everything was of an expensive, excessive, materialistic nature which was portrayed in Television shows and music of the 1980s. These avenues showed the interest society placed on financial success. The characters in a number of television programs, for example, lived in costly homes, wore costly clothes, and drove costly automobiles. They lived lives that required huge amounts of money. Dallas and Dynasty are excellent examples of the lavish lifestyles that became the ultimate American Dream.

And of course there was “Wall Street” the movie which was about dishonesty, greed and excessive lifestyles. During the 1980s talk shows became popular and Oprah Winfrey became a household name worldwide.

It was a time when sex and drugs grew in popularity amongst the rich and famous and those aspiring to be a part of that world. 

Much of the popular music of the time also showed this new openness. Heavy metal rock groups sang about sex and drugs. And then there was the new form of music called "rap". In this form, words are spoken, not sung, over a heavy beat. Many Americans found all these kinds of music to be too shocking, too violent, too lawless, and too damaging to the human spirit.

Sex and drugs eventually became deadly and so people became more careful about their own activities.   A new auto immune disease took centre stage, it was called AIDS, Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. The disease spread in several ways. One was through sexual relations. Another was through sharing the needles used to take illegal drugs.

A big change in American life during the 1980s came as a result of the computer. While they were invented in the 1940s, computers became a big part of the American culture in the 1980s as by this time the actual hardware was much smaller,  it was marketed to everyone as potential users and soon enough it was in the homes of millions Americans.  This revolutionized the way Americans executed their day to day activities such as reading the newspapers, buying things, doing school work etc.

Such technological improvement -- and a bright economy -- filled Americans of the early and middle 1980s with hope. Many felt there were almost no limits on the good life they could lead.

Madonna was singing 'I'm a Material Girl'. Music Videos and MTV became icons of materialism, that is to say, they weren't playing hippy music, but they did show lots of videos that emphasized  all sorts of 'bling', fast cars and wealth and insanely excessive lifestyles.

Crack Cocaine became an epidemic, and with it came a culture of tacky Gold and Diamond medallions.  Brands became the thing that defined Americans and so the cost of everything that carried a decent enough brand were driven up.  The entire cocaine culture revolved around dealing and money and grandiosity. Young people were trying to join social fraternities and finding a way to wear a gaudy Rolex watch. Ronald Reagan was worshiped by many youth.

Previously, I had been told I had to dress down to work there; I discovered the inmates felt more respected when I behaved as myself. Think about it, would you like to talk with someone who 'dresses down' to talk to you

On the social agenda, abortion remains legal, prayer in the schools illegal. Reagan's failure in the war against drugs and related crime activities is so great that drugs were the number one issue in the 1988 presidential campaign.

Conflict
The major point of conflict for Charlie Sheen’s character, Bud Fox , is that he is torn between the working class values taught to him from birth by his family and the community and the superficial, materialistic, opportunistic, selfish culture of Wall Street in general and his idol Gordon Gekko in particular.  His father is an aircraft mechanic who comes from a comfortable but working class home, who is also a Union leader which gives him a definite socialist orientation where he believes in the value and virtue of hard work and camaraderie with his co-workers and fellow men.  As a union leader Fox Senior would be against capitalist exploitation and the unequal distribution of wealth.  However, younger Fox rebels against these principles and is infatuated with the glamorous lifestyle afforded to the rich who do relatively little work but reap disproportionate rewards.  Fox Senior works at a factory with his hands, while Gekko works in a high rise office behind a lavish desk with computers directing others to work for him.   The two men’s lifestyles are polar opposites and while Fox sired and socialised Bud it is Gekko who has superseded him as the most influential figure in his current life.  Young Fox must set aside his family values in order to operate in the world of Wall Street and Gordon Gekko. 

 

THEMES

Wall Street stood out as a model portrayal of the 1980s excess and greed as it dealt with a number of morality conflicts putting wealth and power against simplicity and honesty, and an attack on the value system of extreme competitiveness where ethics and the law are simply irrelevant in the quest for financial success. 
Unethical corporate greed and corruption was the order of the day at the time because of the shift in value systems.  The movie showed how much people valued material wealth over friendship and other things that were once highly valued. Almost to the end of the movie, in a scene with Gekko and Bud, Gekko points out a the fact that a painting on his wall cost US$60 when he purchased it and boasted that now he can sell the said piece of art for upwards of US$600.  Gekko discredited Harvard students as he preferred poor, smart and hungry guys with no feelings. The ultimate goal was to have the best money could buy irrespective of what it cost morally or ethically.

The relationship between Bud and Darien was also based on an expensive and excessive lifestyles. The movie depicted the shift in relationship values at the time, as we saw in the movie people became materialistic and money driven at the core. I like how the relationship unfolded in the context that it was meant to as there was no way Bud the upcoming stock broker, who worked in a less that prestigious firm could have approached the likes of Darien Taylor in a context of a relationship.  He had to be a particular standing to even entertain the thought. 
Darien character loved the extravagant and expensive things life had to offer, which motivated Bud to work for Gekko even more so that he could have pursued her as ordinarily she would have been out of his league.  

The materialism that existed at the time was very obvious in the movie; starting with Gekko office which was far more than it needed to be.  His home was the pinnacle of materialism and it was covered wall to wall with expensive art and home furnishings.  The money culture fed the materialism epically during this period.  click here

On the other hand, we have Carl Fox (Martin Sheen’s character) who represents the working class, he was the union leader for the maintenance worker at the Airline and made a reputation for himself as he constantly attacked the big businesses, money, mandatory drug screening, greedy manufacturers, and anything that he sees as a threat to his union.  The conflict between Gekko’s relentless pursuit of wealth and Carl’s pursuit of taking down men like Gekko forms the basis of the films subtext.  This subtext is a clear parallel of the concept of the two fathers fighting for control over the moral compass of the son.  The producers of the film use Carl as a voice of reason amid the creative destruction brought about by Gekko's unrestrained personal philosophy.  Carl was the father who constantly held Bud to a higher standard and remaindered him of the values and morals he was taught throughout his life – he asked him the hard questions that forced him to think and question his motives and loyalties.

The concept of greed has always had a negative undertone to it, I think this movie heightened the negativity to that concept if that is even possible.  In the scene where Gekko delivers a speech to the shareholders of the company he was planning to take over he seduces the audience and pledges his allegiance to the power of money (see clip here)  This  scene tries to humanize Gekko and the other Wall Street raiders giving them the chance to justify their actions, which he memorably does, portraying himself as a liberator of the company value from the ineffective and excessively compensated executives.  This speech became known as “Greed is good” speech which justified the money culture, the unethical greed that existed and encouraged people to seek greed in all its form. Before I forget to mention,  I think the name Gekko was deliberate and symbolic because its the name of the lizard from the popular commercial; lizards are known to shed their skin according to the environment they find themselves and regain full functionality,  so too the character Gekko does in the context of Wall Street.

The 1980s were about the quick-buck culture, where becoming a millionaire in the shortest possible time was how success was measured. The value of hard work, honesty and good moral values were no longer seen as something good or noble but rather frowned upon from people like Gekko.  Gekko in his own personal experience saw his father work hard his entire life and die in debt, which I surmised was the underlying motivation for Gekko need for financial success, no matter what he had to forfeit in the process of acquiring such, however in the sequel concept of greed changes… Greed is NOT Good speech!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

Thursday, 3 December 2015

It's a Wrap!


This has been a crazy beautiful journey for me, unfortunately, the semester is drawing to a close as such it’s time to draw the curtains on this blog!

I have been introduced to so many new things like Wakeboarding….football the European way…Poetry….Literature…an epic musical play and so much more.  I had the privilege of taking you on my last vacation and sharing Abu Dhabi, Dubai and London with you, some of the many things I did for the very first time! I hope you have enjoyed it as much as I have enjoyed sharing it!

This project has taught me a lot about the power and reach of social media, how social media should be used vs the reality of how we use social media.  It has opened me up to blogging, which is something I was considering doing for some time but never got around to starting anything.  I am glad I did not, because this experience gave me an opportunity to wet my feet, make some errors along the way, get a feel for and understand how to use various social media platforms, understand the importance of consistency and content generation required for blogging as well as how to analyze and measure the effectiveness of my blog using data such as likes, comments, page view and traffic.

It’s been a rather rewarding experience for me, I have learnt so much about myself and challenged myself in ways I would not have done absent of this school assignment.  I can say that the past few months have challenged me to come out of my comfort zone, try new and daring things, face some of my fears and conquer them too!

Let me take this opportunity to thank you for all your likes, comments, shares and views; for all the words of encouragement and constructive criticism. I am so looking forward to my new blog!

 

A Green Screen Screening


I am what you can call a “movie buff” but I’ve never been to a screening of any kind of movie before so when Shiv suggested we do a collaboration I was excited.  My understanding of a movie screening is where you get to see the movie and provide feedback before it’s released to the rest of the world! 
Shiv’s blog focused of the various film festivals that takes place throughout the year, such as UWI Festival of Plays, Green Screen Film Festival and TnT Film Festival to mention a few. At the time of our collaboration a movie called “A Better Place” was being screened at the Green Screen Environmental Film Series 2015.
I learnt that the Green Screen Film Series was created by Sustain T&T, an environmental and sustainability education non-profit organization. There mission is to educate the public about local and global environmental issues that we face through the powerful medium of film.

Directed by award-winning filmmaker Miquel GalofrĂ© and produced by Sustain T&T’s own Carver Bacchus, “A Better Place” takes the viewer to five communities in T&T where people are doing great things, charting their own course and inspiring others to do the same. Each of the featured organizations are also supported by UNDP GEF SGP. The film also features musical performances from home- grown talent. Check out the trailer here.
This experience opened my eyes to the reality of some of the communities’ right here in Trinidad and the challenges that they face. I was not aware of that the current fishing methods practiced in T&T lead to the accidental killing of critically endangered sea turtles; or that ERIC, the Environmental Research Institute, Charlotteville, Tobago existed or that they are working with community groups to educate local residents in managing natural resources.
Viewing this film opened my eyes to a new Trinidad and Tobago, it gave me an appreciation for the community in which I live and inspired me to look at how I can improve it in some little way.  I was blown away by the dedication of the different faculties of the University of the West Indies (UWI) who came together for this project, the togetherness of the community and the wealth of information and innovation that resided in these communities.
Thank you for opening me to a whole new world of film Shiv! 
You can check out Shiv's Blog here FILM 'n' TT

Wednesday, 2 December 2015

A musical....no way!

I have been to a few plays at the Central Bank Auditorium, Naparima Bowl and one or two other locations.  One of my favourite play is called "Mary Could Dance",  which was warm and sometimes scandalous play as it looked at what happens when three dancers/prostitutes face the return of one of the group’s first love back from living years in the United States and features everything from HIV/AIDS, to exotic dancing, to cat fights, to romance, to the antics of the scandalous pimp/bar owner Mule. The play was written by local talent Richard Ragoobarsingh and received many awards in its 16 year run.  It is the best local play ever.  The play was directed by Raymond Choo Kong and features a stellar cast which includes Penelope Spencer, Cecilia Salazar, Richard Ragoobarsingh, Glenn Davis, Dionne McNicol and Roger Dickie. It was a very powerful play which remained my favourite play until I saw Memphis the Musical at the Shaftesbury Theatre in London.
 
As much as I go to local plays from time to time and I love movies,  I am no fan of musicals of any kind...nope not me! I am sure I missed out on some really good movies because of this which is unfortunate.  Nevertheless,  when you're on vacation you tend to be opened to try things that you wouldn't otherwise,  I guess that's what vacation is all about.  When my cousin Donavan and his wife Natasha, invited me to a play I was nonchalant, as for me it was to be just another outing...but boy was I in for the surprise of my life!


In front the Shaftesbury Theatre

 
The Shaftesbury Theatre is majestic and rich in its history and architecture as it was evident by the walls and ceiling as you entered the theatre. It's the largest theatre I have been to to-date, with two or three floors which holds roughly 1400 patrons.  It was truly an amazing sight and experience for me.

Tasha, Heuy, Janelle and Delray!
The lights went out, the curtains rolled up and the play was about to begin...now let me just say, I went to this play clueless as to what the play was about or who was acting, not that I would know in any event.  The play was loosely based on Memphis disc jockey Dewey Phillips, one of the first white DJ to play black music in the 1950s.  Dewey fell in love with a beautiful African American club singer and became passionate and determined to make her a household name in America.  This would come with it many challenges since something like this, at the time would face cultural divides and spark a music revolution that will shake the world.

The characters were amazing,  the lead cast was Beverley Knight who played Felicia,  Heuy's love interest, Matt Cardle who played Heuy and Roland Bell who played Felicia's elder brother Delray.  The acting was epic and the singing was out of this world phenomenal!  All three leads brought down the house when they sang - it was powerful, emotional and very much alive with tempo.  If Donavan or Tasha had told me this was going to be this exciting I would not have believed them.  I mean,  I was on the edge of my seat, totally engrossed and clapped throughout the play. I'm not sure but I think I was one of the first one out my seat for a standing ovation! I remember saying to myself "I'm coming to see this again!" because I enjoyed it thoroughly and was given a new experience and view of musicals.

This "little" outing turned out to be one of the most noteworthy experience I had on my vacation! 

 

At the Emirates...


The Emirates Stadium
In my last blog I shared with you what experiencing a football match outside of Trinidad was like for me.   I shared what made the experience mind blowing and how taken aback I was at the level of fanaticism that was demonstrated. It would be remiss of me to not blog on the well-known Emirates Stadium aka The Arsenal Stadium.

So, here's a bit of history for you - The Emirates Stadium officially opened on the 23rd of July 2006; it is acknowledged as one of the finest football stadiums in the world and was sold out for every first-team game in its opening season; its' capacity is a impressive 60,000. The Emirates Stadium replaced Arsenal’s previous home Highbury, which had become too small and lacked the possibilities for expansion being hemmed in by housing, achieving this was no easy feat for the club.  The Club not only constructed a stadium, it regenerated the local community.  The stadium was named Emirates because the airline sponsors Arsenal.  Some die-hard fans argue that ‘The Emirates’ is the country that the airline represents. It’s a small middle-eastern country, not a football stadium in North London.

On the streets to the Emirates...
Arsenal's history on display
Let me just tell you, when you are in the vicinity of the Arsenal Stadium there is no chance of you getting lost,  being unsure of which direction to turn or where to go because the streets a lines with booths selling memorabilia’s and fans chanting as they make their way to the entrance. When you get there, you become a child in a candy store once you walk into the Arsenal gift shop – anything you can thing about is in there and branded Arsenal including sweets!

The walls of the stadium is covered with history of all sort from the Hat-Trick Heroes to the founding players, a list of the club achievements over the years and few others that I really can't recall at the moment. 
Even though I am not a football fanatic,  I have to say that the holistic experience was really an eye opening experience for me in terms of having a better  understanding and appreciation of the magnitude of a "true" football stadium, when viewing a game,  what real fanaticism looks like and what it means to be legendary club! I can't wait to go to another game!


 

Tuesday, 1 December 2015

European football experienced for the first time


I am not a football die-hard fan,  I am what you would call a “band-wagonist”  because the only time I pay any attention to football is one of two times – when World Cup rolls around or when T&T makes some kind of significant stride in the football arena (which unfortunately isn’t very often).   My all-time favorite player is Diego Maradona and of course my team would be Argentina, this has been the case since the 1986 World Cup and has never changed to date!

Now,  even though I am not a football fanatic...I don’t live under a rock,  so,  I am familiar with current happenings in the football arena like the names of the big teams and a few of the big name players and maybe the team one or two of them belong to!  Yup…that’s about it!  So that when I got to London going to a football game was nowhere on my radar at all, but when opportunities presents itself to experience something new you have to embrace it!

Not being an avid follower of football, my first time at an international game was mind blowing!  I totally understood what people meant when they say “football is like a religion to Europeans” OMG! I was invited to see Arsenal play one of their “club” game…which club I don’t know but hey I knew Arsenal was a big team and so I was open to it! 


At the game!
The weather was ridiculously cold, I was buried in clothing – layers of them and still freezing my tosh off – maybe it’s because I live in a tropical island, but dammit it was cold!  I recall walking through the train station to get to another platform to take the last train to the Emirates Stadium when I saw this dude with an injured leg, hopping on a crutch in the cold and with one stupid question found out that he was heading to the very same Stadium as us!!!!!  This is something I would rarely see where I come from so I was like...no way!

When we got to the stadium, the amount of people that was there was amazing but what blew me away was the discipline they demonstrated upon entering and exiting the stadium!  It was like watching soldiers, with the exception of maybe one or two! That kind of turn out would only happen for a very significant game not a club match in Trinidad....no way!

If ever you want to experience true fanaticism, I would recommend going to a European football game.  The fans, the traditions, the excitement, the passion you experience is second to nothing you will ever experience anywhere else. These fans, turned out in the thousands to watch their teams play, the stadium was divided by team colors apparently (yes, I didn’t know this happens), each team had their respective “anthem” which turned into a sing off.  They were so engrossed in the game – from the warm up to the final whistle. It was all about the football!

Having experienced this, I get why footballers are paid so handsomely – they have to be consistently good because the fans are unforgiving at best!

When we met for the first time....

 
I come from a rather large family -  I have seven siblings…I think that is considered large!  My mom’s side of the family is a bit smaller than my dad’s, but collectively my extended family is large and spread across the globe - England, Portugal, France, United States and that’s what I can remember of the top of my head.
I am more familiar with my dad’s side of the extended family because some of us keep in touch from time to time and even though we are not as close-knit as we should be, we check in from time to time.  And thank God for social media we have Facebook, Skype and even Wats App to help close the communication gaps. However, I have a few cousins whom I have heard off for as long as I can recall growing up but never met until my recent trip to London.
One of my objectives on this trip was to meet at least one of my cousins who I've never met. I felt that it was necessary to meet and connect with my cousins because you never know what life holds and I don’t want to have to say “OMG I should have made an effort to meet them” or “I wish I met such and such”. In London specifically, I have three cousins who I have met only through my aunt who visits often enough.

David with Ava Bear and Ashley and Peter...these dads don't play
So I finally met my cousin David and his family…and I have to say I really have some gorgeous family!  I was surprised by how much of the Collins features he had and he was astonished by how much I looked like a “younger version” of his mom.  His wife, Bethany, who is all of maybe five feet,  is one of the sweetest person I’ve ever met and don’t get me started on their two year old Eva…adorable personified!
I also had the pleasure of meeting my cousin’s fiancĂ© Ashley, who is such an awesome guy and their son Peter who was all of three months at the time!  Peter is so adorable it is no joke, and at three months old he was a perfect gentleman!

Nambia and Peter, Penny (me) and Bethany and Ava Bear!

It felt so good to finally meet one of my three cuz, to just sit and hang out, share jokes and stories and exchange numbers was awesome!  Even though I was not able to meet Dashan and Peter due to work schedules and life commitments,  I'm sure we will meet on my next trip!